Monday, June 16, 2014

Tilden Steam Train


It's rare that we have a day with nothing planned. We decided to go to the steam train in Tilden park. We also had a nice picnic in the park across the street. I, yet again, forgot the spoons, so we converted the foil tops and they got a kick out of that! Maggie loves turning trash into treasures, so she really appreciated this.

                                                                   



Afterwards, we took the long winding road back down towards Claremont, got gas with a wonderful view of the magestic, stark white Claremont hotel. Maggie exclaimed, "I want to go there!" Mary replied, "Right now?" "No Mary, another day," Maggie said in condescension tone. I reminded them that daddy took them there when they were babies so that I could have a girls overnight here. They were overjoyed, even though they don't remember a thing.

I had the bright idea of getting ice cream, and found a place on Yelp with lots do sorbets for me. It was Tara's ice cream on College Ave. and had so many hippie flavors that the girls couldn't find nothing they liked. Fearful that they wouldn't get anything, they settled on dark chocolate, but apparently that was a bit too granola for their taste ns it ended up in the trash!

Thursday, February 06, 2014

Wednesday, February 05, 2014

February 5th


 6 year old girls pushing M&M. They may have been smaller and we're getting quite winded.

Story time at the library. 

Saturday, February 01, 2014

Chalk Drawings

I love this elephant by Mary. 

This Maggie's baby bird and mommy bird.

Friday, January 31, 2014

Winter 2014 - It's Been Awhile!

OK, so it's been two years since I have posted anything on our blog. The Facebook craze took over, as well as a little laziness. The twos and threes were busy, fun, blissful and challenging with Maggie and Mary!  We have now entered into the 4s and so far, so good. Well, that's not entirely true, but I am feeling very positive right now.

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Fall and Winter

It's been quite a long time since I updated this blog. It looks like the girls were about 18 months during my last post! They turned 2 on December 5th! Can't believe it! Where has the time gone? They are so smart, happy, polite and adorable. They melt our hearts each day with their smiles, hugs and kisses. We love them so much!

The past 6 months have been busy with activities and travel. I still take the girls to their music class each week and either the zoo or Academy of Sciences. They also love the park and are getting more bold with climbing and slides. They are running a lot more and we sometimes take the ball to the park and have them practice throwing and kicking. At home they are still really into their books and pretending they are reading. Some new toys they are into are Mr. Potato head, Disney and animal figurines, mini kitchen, purses, stuffed animals and baby strollers. They continue to like coloring on their easel and ask me to help them write their name and make shapes. They also LOVE playing in the car and pretending they are driving, adjusting mirrors and pushing buttons!

Maggie and Mary just had their 2 year old well visit at the doctors. They had a clean bill of health. They are almost 33 lbs (95th%), almost 3 feet tall (85th%) and their heads are still in the 99th% (that's why they are so smart!!). The doctor was impressed when I told him they each brussel sprouts, kale, broccoli, peas, corn and sweet peppers along with most meat and fruit. Their favorite new fruit are raspberries, blackberries and clementine oranges (small and seedless). They are also off the bottle and just drink milk from a sippy cup and juice from their straw cups. We moved from the highchairs to a booster chair a couple months ago and they really like it!

Their intelligence continues to amaze us (may be because we are first time parents!!) They know their entire alphabet (upper case and most lower case) by sight and in sign language. They can count from 1-10 and are practicing 11-20. What's more amazing is that they know all their colors, which is very advanced! Their vocabulary is also huge. They pretty much repeat any word we say and are now stringing together 2-4 words. Some cute things they say are "what the, what the?" , "God bless you", "amazing!", 'love you", "watchya doing?" "here ya go". Mary and Maggie are also very polite. We taught them to say thank you, sorry and please in sign language, so now that they are talking they say these words all the time, usually on cue, "Whats the magic word?" or "Say sorry to your sister."

They are very happy girls when they are well fed and sleep well. Luckily this is most the time! We have had a few melt downs and tantrums, usually when they are sick or we are traveling. We feel extremely blessed when we talk to other parents of toddlers who report tantrums every day! We started time-outs when they were around 19 months and they have worked really well. Mary is better at them since she's had more practice :o). Maggie is pretty good at minding and taking direction. Mary usually wants to do the opposite of what we ask.

They really love and care for each other. The other night after Mary had a time-out, Maggie came up to me with a mean face and hit me softly and then said "time-out" and then went and sat with Mary in the living room. Then just recently, Maggie has been pretending to whine and be sad. She waits for Mary to come up to her and ask "wrong?" "OK?" and pat her on the back. Maggie then laughing hysterically. They also hug and kiss each other randonly, as you can see in the pictures.

We went down to Orange County and saw Nana and Papa (Maggie and Mary get extrememly exciting to see them!!!) in September and December and both times went to Disneyland. The girls loved It's a Small World ride and talked about the "boat" ride and loved hearing the song for months later. During our most recent trip they were very excited to go on the Winnie the Pooh ride. They were both excited to see the actually live characters while we were standing in line to meet them. Maggie freaked out as soon as we got close to Tigger and Pooh, but Mary just loved them. They have also been a bit scared about Santa this year, so we didn't even try to get pictures with him.

The girls both love to play with our phones, mainly because there are games and movies. This was a Godsend on our long flight to see Gaga and Pappy (Larry's parents) in North Carolina over Thanksgiving. The weather was amazing and they really loved being with their other set of grandparents who spoil them. We decided to stay in a hotel because Larry's sister threw her back out on Thanksgiving and she really needed our bed. The girls would get upset when we left Gaga and Pappy's! When we were on our way to their home in the morning, the girls would get all excited and say "yay!" and "Gaga, Pappy" They got their first nice baby dolls with lots of accessories from Gaga and Pappy. Right away they started feeding their babies with the bottles! So cute!

Since I last wrote, I started introducing some cartoons. We are pretty selective and try to choose the ones that are educational. They love Super Why! (reading, phonics) and Mickey Mouse Clubhouse (which is surprisingly very educational for their age!), Sesame Street (Elmo!!!), Thomas the Train and Angelina Ballerina (they love dancing around like ballerinas!) By far their favorite is Mickey Mouse and they ask for it daily, but we limit TV to about an hour. They saw their first movie a month ago and are now hooked on the new Winnie the Pooh movie. I have to admit, it's adorable and very intelligent!

Here are some photos. Enjoy!

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Summer

Hi everyone. We are doing well here in Alameda. It hasn't been the warmest of summers, but we are looking forward to our Indian Summer in September and October.

Maggie and Mary are doing well. In the past few months they have improved their climbing to the point where we can't really leave them alone in the living room for more than a few seconds. All the childproofing in the world doesn't seem to help keep these little ones from finding something new and dangerous! We hired a mother's helper this past month a couple days a week. It has truly been a Godsend and we will be sad when she goes back to college in September. She helps me take them to the park, zoo, Academy of Sciences, etc. so that they can get out and walk and explore.

The girls took swimming lessons with us and like last year, they seem to like the water. Mary is determined to blow bubbles (she now says "bubbles, bubbles" as she drops her mouth in the water, thinking that will produce the desired effect) We got life vests and floating vessels, but haven't foudn the time to use them yet!! The girls are still practicing their American Sign Language (they know about 80+ signs), but are talking as well. This past week they are literally trying to repeat most everything we say. We practice their numbers, letters, colors and shapes and I am amazed that they are becoming proficient in most of these areas. They do know a bit of the sign language alphabet, so pointing out each letter won't be too far off. They still love to read their books and have found favorites that we checked out from the library. Now I have to buy them...Goodnight Gorilla is one of their favorites!!

Our home has been in dust for about 5 months. We renovated the guest bath and our HOA replaced all of the upstairs balconies due to dry rot. NO more projects for a little while!! Oh what a pain! The attached photos are from about 17-20 months old. It's been challenging to keep up with posting pictures on this blog since I post daily on Facebook. We found a wonderful photographer, Darwin Sayo (www.shadesofbeautiful.com), who took the beautiful family photos at the park in our neighborhood.





18 - 20 Months



Saturday, June 11, 2011

15-17 Months

Hi everyone.
All is well here with the Parente family. We had a busy month with the girls catching some nasty flu bug while Larry was away on business. We got through it and as always I learned a lot from the advice nurses at Kaiser during our middle of the night phone chats.

The girls and I keep busy during the week with Music class at the library on Mondays and Farmer's Market on Tuesdays. We also go to the Oakland Zoo and Academy of Sciences in San Francisco where the girls see lots of fish and penguins. They love going to parks and I feel like I have visited most of the ones in Alameda. My favorite are the fenced in parks, as you can imagine. They love climbing play structures, going down slides and swinging.

They are talking a lot more, but most noteable is their mastery of about 50 signs in American Sign Language...well, mastery might be overdoing it a bit-they have their own versions of some signs. They are now trying their hand (budump-bump) at the finger alphabet.

Enjoy the photos:

15-17 months

Monday, March 14, 2011

February-March

The girls are doing very well. Maggie and Mary now know about 30 signs! They are not perfect, of course, but they clearly know the words and try to sign as best as their little hands and arms can. Their newest signs are Cold, Hot, Elephant, Dirty, Clean, Stop, Go, Wait (which is great when I am asking them to be patient and wait, they start signing it and it buys me some time!)

They are still eating well and we have added strawberries, bananas (never really liked these until recently) and Fish (breaded, of course). No food allergies yet...yeah!!! Mary is our speed eater and stuffer (like Larry and I, unfortunately.) We have more choking issues with her. Maggie has really slowed down her eating, so we are usually waiting for her! At least someone in this family eats properly! Mary has officially caught on to the straw sippy cup & thinks it's the coolest thing! Maggie picked this up over a month ago, but Mary just wanted to chew on it and would get very frustrated.

We are practicing shapes, colors and stacking blocks. The girls love reading their books and we think they are finally over eating them. I love to catch them quietly sitting in a corner each reading a book...precious!!!

Luckily we still are pretty tantrum, screaming, crying free! I hope it lasts!!! We get some whining from Mary when she wants something, but she can sort of tell us what she wants and it's over pretty soon. We are ultra blessed with these good temperament twinsies!!!

My pictures taking has slowed down since I got the Verizon iPhone. I take most my pictures on it and post to Facebook. Here are some videos and a link to some recent pictures.


February-March

Friday, February 18, 2011

January- February

Well, 2011 has been busy so far. We are renovating our living room and guest bath. Larry and I are trying to do most of it ourselves, but are leaving the really technical stuff up to the contractors. We are starting to learn all about codes that come into play when you remove countertops, shower tile, etc. Fun, fun.

Larry had a long business trip to Florida the end of January. My sister-in-law Monica drove down with me and we got there in time to celebrate Monica, my mom and aunt Cathie's birthdays at Buca de Beppo. The girls had fun at Nana and Papas for a week. Nana drove up North with us the next Sunday. Thank God for the video system in our Sienna...life saver!

The girls are doing very well and passed their last Preemie visit with flying colors. It's really great that Kaiser has all preemie infants in for semi-yearly checks to make sure babies that are born too early are on-track. We are so happy that ours meet and exceed in all developmental areas. Yay!!!! They are also now 27.7 and 26.9 lbs/oz, Mary being the slightly heavier and taller one. They are in the 93-96th percentile!!!!

I love being at home with them!! They are back to two naps a day which makes it hard to get out. The rain is welcome as it keeps me from doing too many things outside the home. The girls are walking everywhere now...it's so adorable watching them walk all over the living room. They like to play together, but also do very well on their own. I often catch then silently reading books or playing with a toy. Of course, that doesn't mean they never get upset...Mary has started wanting everything and lets me know by whining, but we can easily distract her. Maggie has started these little yells when she wants something, not too different from when she was 2 weeks old and didn't want me to burp her!! Even with their little willful natures springing up, they are still just so adorable and we love them to pieces!!! this house is full of hugs and kisses and we love that they are so affectionate!!! Today I snuggles with both of them on the couch and we watched their signing video and learned new signs together. I was in heaven!!!!

January-February

Sunday, January 09, 2011

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas to all (although I am posting this just after the Epiphany)and Happy New Year. Despite the two viruses that struck our family, we were all still in pretty good spirits! We saw tons of family and shared the joy of the true meaning of Christmas (aka baby Jesus), Rejoice!

December 2010

Wednesday, December 08, 2010

1 Year Old

I can't believe my babies are already a year old. We had an nice small birthday party with the two sets of godparents and Ricketts grandparents. Here are just a few pictures. More pics and videos to come.

1 Year

Saturday, November 06, 2010

11 Months

The girls are sure getting more active and verbal! Maggie is now cruising and will practic standing on her own. Her record is 9 seconds. Mary finally figured out she was behind and is now trying to pull her self up on things, but hasn't stood up on her own. Mary is however, saying a lot more...mama, baba, lala, vava, dada...and what sounds like "hi daddy." Maggie says some things, but mostly lots of high pitched sounds and complete babble. They just seem to love each other more and more each day. You can see what I mean with the video below. Of course, this doesn't mean that have stopped biting each other!

We had a nice trip down South. Besides the girls getting over a very snotty cold, everything went well. Thanks Nana and Papa!!!

11.8.10 - Mary pulled herself up for the first time. Yay Mary!!!
11.27.10 - Maggie started saying ba ba and ma ma consecutively instead of random "ma" and "ba" within her babble. She is now doing it when she falls asleep...quite the sleep talker.

Mary likes to eat odd things lately. While changing her I found a 3 inch peice of carpet in her "diaper" that she somehow ate even though we vigilantly watch them. She was also eating a woody leaf on our walk the same day that must have fallen on her. And if that wasn't enough she is really working at removing most of the paint from the high end of her crib when she won't go down for a nap....lovely.



11 Months

10.5 Months

10.5 Months

Thursday, October 14, 2010

10 Months

I can't believe they are 10 Months already!!! Daddy is still recovering from his broken collarbone, so it's been quite busy around here...for me! Larry is doing what he can, but we don't want him to grow another joint in the middle of his collarbone!!
I had fun with the below photoshoot, well sort of...they sure do move around a lot more now.

On 10/3 Mary started saying Mama. Mary is crawling, but sometimes decides not to go for it when it looks like it's too far to crawl. She is definitely more laid back. Maggie is constatnly trying to stand up in the crib and the play yard. She has been successful once!! She has said Mama a couple times, but not as much as Mary. They are loving their signing videos and Mary especially is mimicing the signs. This should help when they get frustrated trying to tell me what they want.



M&M 10 Months

9.5 Months

Well, we made it home but not without the help of many people at the Lahaina airport and Larry's dad. Pappy Parente also helped us for over a week!!! When my back finally felt more stable, I took the girls to a Twins by the Bay park event where we got to see the other M&M twins - Michael and Mellie.

Maggie started crawling on 9/26! The next day, she was trying to pull herself up in the crib!! Slow down Magster! Mary is doing a lot of combat crawling, but not offically crawling yet.

M&M 9.5 Months


Click on the images below to see the videos:
Maggie Crawling
From M&M 9.5 Months


Mary Applauding
From M&M 9.5 Months

Saturday, September 11, 2010

9 Months and Maui

Hi all. We arrived in Maui Thursday after a quite enjoyable 4.5 hour flight. We got an extra seat, so we all had seats!!! Yeah! Girls did great and are back on feeding, sleeping schedule already. Here are some pics. Check back over the next two weeks to see new ones.

Maui 2010


The girls have accomplished a few developmental milestones while in Maui.
On 9/16, the day before I threw out my lower back, I had the girls hold their own bottles and from then on they have been holding them on their own. They could do this at 4 months, but got lazy and knew we would hold it for them. For some reason they were ready on this trip...Thank God!! Then on the same day while trying to videotaping Mary's tummy tapping, I noticed when reviewing the footage that Maggie was clapping the whole time...she's been clapping a lot since then. This morning, 9/19, Mary started clapping too!!!

Some not-so-exciting events: 9/17 - I threw my back out after a week of taking care of the girls on the floor. My back said "enough!!!" and I called in an emergency nanny since Larry was out playing golf. We liked Allison and booked her for a few hours here and there. 9/20 - 10 minutes into our first daytime date, Larry broke his collarbone coming out of the water at J.T. Fleming beach. Granted, there were Dangerous Shorebreak warning signs, but it honestly didn't look that bad. We are very grateful that it wasn't more serious!!!!!!!!!!!! The trek home was challenging and we asked for help wherever we could get it. Larry's father came all the way out from North Carolina to help us get the girls from the airport to home and take care of us for over a week!!! Thanks Pappy!!

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

8.5 Months

Both Maggie and Mary's second upper tooth came in today (4 days after the other one), so it won't look too uneven when they come in. here are some pictures from some recent activites.

M&M 8.5 Months

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

8 Months and Adoption Finalized

The twins' 8th month has been quite eventful.

* Adoption: They were officially adopted on August 6, 2010 in Oakland, California. The adoption hearing was nice and imtimate. My mom came up last minute to attend and celebrate with us. The judge had a great sense of humor and we have him saying on tape that the girls have to clean their rooms as part of the adoption. We may be playing that a few times in the future!!! Apparently it's taking a year for people to get their new birth certificates after adoption... and that was before furlow days....yikes!

* Teething: They are really trying to get their top teeth in as well as some additional ones on the bottom. They like to chew on anything from clothing to the actual crib...Maggie took a nice big chunk out of hers...thank God for non-toxic paint. The breathable bumpers don't cover every slat, unfortunately.

* Crawling: Although Maggie started this first, they are both doing a backward scoot that leaves them quite frustrated. They try and grab a toy, but find that it is soon WAY out of their reach. When they hit a dead end they start to rock front to back, so crawling is not too far off. I am NOT in a hurry for this milestone!!!

* Sleeping: They are sleeping 11-12 hours every night and have a two to three 1.5-2 hour naps a day. This past week the naps seems to be getting shorter and less frequent :o( They sleep in separate rooms, but we hope to get them back together soon. This is mainly because I want to redecorate their room so that it's more girlie...we'll see!

* Eating: They are now eating solids three times a day. They love oatmeal (with hidden fruit since they won't eat fruit on it's own) cottage cheese and summer veggies for lunch and mixed grains, sweet potatoes/peas and meat dish for dinner. They both have very strong gag reflexes which can result in quite a dramatic display, so trying new foods is always eventful.

* Sweet and Adorable: Although they are exibiting a little feisty behavior when it comes to clenaing out their noses (during this last cold) and putting the highchair tray on, they are just the sweetest babies.

Here are some photo shoot pics from their Adoption and more 8 month pics:

Adoption Photo Shoot


M&M 8 months - adoption

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

7 Months

Hello again. Well, it's been another fun month with the girlies. Here are some events/milestones:

* I take the girls to the gym across the street 3 times a week. They like the little day care and the girls who watch them. Mom like them too!!!

* They are sleeping about 11 hours at night consistently!! Yeah!!

* Had their High Risk Infant visit with specialists (offered for premature infants through Kaiser) They passed with flying colors and they absolutely loved them. "Are they always this good and happy?", said the Occupational Therapist while working with them. I hear this all the time, but nice to hear from a practitioner who sees babies all day.

* They are both rolling around like crazy - front to back, back to front

* They are also pretty much sitting up unaided, but have had a couple face plants and heads bumps if I wasn't right there to catch their fall

* They are apparently still teething (lots of drool and chewing on everything), but no new teeth since 5 months. Those two bottom teeth have become more prominent as you can see in the photos! They have both learned the hard way not to put their hand or foot in the other's mouth.

* They will be starting a third meal this week and trying meat and yogurt for the first time. Should be interesting.

* We filed all the adoption paperwork with the county and so did our agency! Waiting to hear when we attend our court hearing.

* Had our first outing to Costco, just the girls and me. Only turned into a nightmare because I only brought my Visa....argghhh

Here are some pictures.

M&M 7 Months